Her Tongue and Your Heart

Hey man,

Ever had a girl say something else and do something totally different? Like…

She says she “just wants to be friends with you” but still flirts with you.

She says “you are such a great guy” but still doesn’t date you.

She says “I wish I had a boyfriend like you” but sleeps with someone totally opposite.

This might make you think that girls like this are liars and dishonest,

But that's where most guys go wrong.

Let me explain,

We men are honest with our words,

If we say something, we mean it and plan to follow through.

But women?

They are honest to their feelings – not their words.

A woman can go as far as murdering her husband or boyfriend with the help of her lover even if it's morally or legally wrong.

Her feelings dictate her truth — moment by moment.

This is the key difference most guys don't get.

And I’m not saying this to scare you, I’m here to alert you and to make sure you don’t end up like one of these victims.

But did you notice that the subject line says - Her tongue and your heart…

Even though women follow their hearts (feelings), why does your heart get affected?

It’s pretty simple.

90% of men get easily affected by the words of a woman they like,

A single compliment, a playful text, or a flirtatious smile can pierce a man’s heart. That’s how she gets power — through words.

But once you stop giving a fuck about what she says and start focusing on what she does, everything changes.

You’ll see who she really is - not the version she talks about.

And this wisdom isn't just about women.

Today's generation of men are becoming emotionally reactive too (all those TikTok, reel making soft boys).

Even they operate on feelings over logic.

And just like with women, their words can’t always be trusted.

You’ve got to observe actions, even if it’s your best friend, your brother, or even your dad.

So here's my advice:

Take her words with a grain of salt and observe her actions. Actions > Words.

Now that you know why her actions don’t always match her words…

It’s time to show you how to speak womanese — the language that makes her feel.

Your bro,

Faiz

P.S. Don’t hate women for being this way. They’re wired for emotion. Once you understand how to use that to your advantage, they’ll love you for it.