Speak Womanese Part 3

Hey man,

If you want to make her open up, crave your presence, and dream about you at 3AM...

Here’s what you need to do.

1. Don’t talk to her. Vibe with her.

Forget facts.

Forget small talk.

Forget trying to be “interesting.”

You’re not here to impress her. You’re here to vibe.

That means slowing down your words.

Owning your silences.

Saying less—but with more impact.

“You’re trouble. I can tell by the way you smile.”

“You blink like someone with a dark secret.”

“If you keep looking at me like that, I’ll have to kiss you.”

Speak like you already know she wants you.

2. Ask Charismatic Questions

Forget “what do you do?” or “what’s your favorite movie?”

Those are beta. Robotic. Friendzone questions.

You want questions that pull her soul out of her chest.

Questions that make her stop, smile, and think:

“No one’s ever asked me that before.”

Here are 5 of my favorites (from the elite playbook):

🔥 “At what moment did you know your last relationship was over?”

She’ll open up. You dig deeper. You get insight into her fears, boundaries, and desires.

🔥 “What’s your favorite place to be kissed… other than your lips?”

Say it low. Say it slow. Watch her pupils dilate.

🔥 “What’s the biggest regret of your life?”

Then tell her:

“Missed opportunities hurt the most… don’t you think?”

Now she’ll subconsciously start taking your seriously

🔥 “If we had insane sex on the first date… would you catch feelings?”

It’s playful. Flirty. And it sets a sexual frame without being pushy.

🔥 “What’s the sneakiest trick you’ve pulled to attract a guy?”

Then say: “Aha. So that’s why you sat next to me.”

Playful. Accusatory. Fun.

Use just one per interaction. Go deep. Spin stories. Tease her answers.

These questions pull emotion and make her qualify herself to you.

Remember: you’re the prize. She’s the applicant.

3. Be Playful (Speak to Her Inner Child)

A woman is a child wrapped in an adult body.

She wants to be teased. Challenged. Lightly disqualified.

“You’re cute… but I don’t date girls who bite their straw like that.”

“You’re trouble. I need to report you to HR… wait, do you have a job?”

“You're giving me 'I sneak snacks into the movies' vibes.”

This playful back-and-forth builds tension.

Because deep down, women crave a man who can handle their chaos—and still laugh about it.

If you don’t tease her, you’ll bore her.

And the guy who bores her… never sees her naked.

4. The Vibe = Sexual, Calm, Certain

Your words are just 10% of the game.

The rest?

Tone. Eye contact. Pauses. Smirks. Space. Presence.

Don’t rush. Don’t fidget. Don’t overtalk.

When she answers a question…

Don’t immediately reply.

Pause.

Look at her.

Let the silence stretch.

Then hit her with something cocky, playful, or flirty.

You’re not in a rush.

You’re not trying to win her.

You are the win.

5. What NOT to Do (If You Want to Keep the Vibe Alive)

Here’s what kills attraction faster than a fat guy in skinny jeans:

❌ Asking logical questions like:

“So where are you from?”

“What do you do?”

“What did you study?”

She’s heard it 473 times this week.

Ask about her fantasies, fears, turn-ons—not her LinkedIn profile.

❌ Talking too much

The more you talk, the more you chase.

Instead, let her do 70% of the talking.

You’re the mountain. Calm. Solid. Unmoved.

❌ Being reactive

She tests you? Says something bratty?

Smile. Raise an eyebrow.

And say,

“That’s cute. You trying to impress me right now?”

Never defend. Always reframe.

❌ Acting like a friend

No “aww that’s sweet.”

No “you go girl.”

No “tell me more about your cat’s gluten allergy.”

You're not here to emotionally babysit her.

You're here to lead her into your world.

6. The Truth About Talking to Women

Every word you say is either raising or lowering her attraction.

It’s never neutral.

So speak like a man who’s:

Got options

Got standards

And knows how to create an unforgettable experience

Don’t be her therapist.

Don’t be her yes-man.

Be the guy who makes her feel something.

And when she feels enough…

She’ll follow you anywhere.

Your bro,

AM

P.S. Here's Part 1 and Part 2 make sure to read it back again.