The TEXTING BIBLE

Hey man,

Today, I’m giving you battle tested text game tactics from the real world.

No theory.

Just what to say. When to say it. And how to keep her chasing.

Let’s begin!

Rule #1: Texting isn’t talking.

Texting isn’t for endless chatting or flirting. 

It’s about one thing: Setting up the date.

Anything beyond that, and you’re surely about to get friendzoned.

Treat texting as the foreplay because the moment she sees you as just another guy to chat with when she’s bored?

You’re finished.

You're not her therapist. You're not her diary.

You simply text her with the purpose of meeting her irl and truly know her in person.

Rule #2: Sexting is NOT the goal

Here’s where most guys fumble:

They try to sext their way into sex.

Wrong move.

If you haven’t makeout with her yet, sexting is a trap.

It makes her feel like she’s already given you something without actually giving you anything.

She gets her ego stroked. You get blue balls.

And worst of all, while you’re sending spicy paragraphs, some other guy is out with her—actually closing.

Only sext after you’ve already sealed the deal.
Until then? Tease. Build tension. But don’t blow your load in the chat.

Rule #3: No long paragraphs. No emojis. No LOLs.

You think a high value man is texting:

“Lol that’s sooo cute 🥺😂❤️”

No.

They send ten words or less and it hits harder than your entire paragraph.

Limit:

• Emojis
  

• LOLs and “hahas”
  

• Paragraphs longer than hers
  

These are all validation-seeking behaviors.

Instead, be calculated, brief, and cocky.

Let her feel the silence. Let her sit in the tension.

Rule #4: Always lead the conversation

Women want a man who directs the vibe.

When she says:

“Hey, how are you?”

Don’t reply:

“Good, wbu?”

That fucking boring.

Try:

“Fantastic. Just got back from a run. You like outdoors or nah?”

You just:

• Displayed value (you work out)
  

• Gave her something to bite on
  

• Flipped the question on her, confidently
  

That’s how you lead.

Rule #5: Don’t be too available

If you reply in 5 seconds, say “yes” to every plan, and let her text you all day—

You’re basically a beta.

Instead, create Detached Urgency.

Let her know:

“I’m travelling out this weekend. If we’re meeting, it’s gotta be before that.”

Make it feel like the opportunity with you is slipping away.

Because if you’re always there, she’ll assume you’ve got no options.

And women want the man other women want.

Rule #6: Escalate with intent

You’re not texting to “just vibe.”

You’re texting to build a connection she can’t stop thinking about.

Play the 21 Questions Game. But stack it properly.

Start soft:

“What’s your favorite place to go when you’re happy?”

Then build tension:

“When was your first kiss?”
“Your favorite place to be touched?”
“What’s your wildest fantasy?”

Now you’re not some guy just texting her—you’re the fantasy guy in her mind.

But only do this after you’ve make out or keep it light if you haven’t otherwise you are just like every other horny guy sending dick pics in her dms.

Rule #7: Don’t double text

If she stops replying—let her.

Do not chase. That’s what simps do.

If you do follow up, do it like this:

“Dear diary, cute (her name) vanished. Should I call 911?”

Or

“If you’re this quiet during sex, I’m friend-zoning you.”

Be playful and bold.

She’ll either respond or disqualify herself. Either way—you win.

Rule #8: Use memes & gifs strategically

Memes are cheat codes.

They let you say things you couldn’t normally get away with—sexually, emotionally, playfully.

But don’t become her meme dealer.

Send one every few days, then follow it up with real conversation.

Memes = bait.
Your texts = the hook.

Use both wisely.

Rule #9: Balance the investment

Early on, sure—you might invest a bit more to warm her up.

But once she’s showing interest?

You pull back.

Let her match your energy.

• Shorter texts than hers
  

• Slower replies than hers
  

• Less enthusiasm than hers
  

It sounds cold. But trust me—she’ll notice, and she’ll chase.

Rule #10: Know your purpose

You’re not here to be her text buddy.

You’re here to screen her. Escalate. And set the date.

If she’s boring, dry, flaky—you walk away.

You don’t force things. You don’t beg.

You text like a man with options. A man with a life.

Final Reminder: Game = Sales

Your job isn’t to entertain.

It’s to filter, polarize, and attract.

Dan Bilzerian doesn’t send flowers over iMessage.

He sends bold, sharp lines. And if she’s down? Cool. If not?
Next.

That’s the mindset.

And here’s the truth most guys don’t get:

If she doesn’t feel like she could lose you—she’ll never want to win you.

Your bro,

AM

P.S. Re-read this every time you're tempted to send a sweet emoji or beg for her time.

You're not here to be liked. You're here to be desired.

P.S.S. Tomorrow’s lesson is going to be awesome. We're breaking down the Do’s & Don’ts of a first date.